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Marriage Intensive Weekend

     Posted on Mon ,07/04/2014 by Chip

For the first time in the history of our church we will be offering an affordable marriage intensive weekend. During Memorial Day weekend we have six spots for couples who wish to go deeper in their faith and marriage. If you’re unsure if this is for you or wondering if this weekend is even worth your time – let me give you 10 reasons why you should consider attending:

1) The cost is  $100 – and that is a small investment for your marriage. So even if it isn’t applicable to you – you get to go away for the weekend without kids or distractions – and spend time with your best friend.

2) Couples will have the opportunity to to sit down with a certified prepare and enrich marriage facilitator to work through specific issues or problems.

3) During small group times couples will have the opportunity to learn from other couples and recognize that they aren’t the only ones who struggle in marriage.

4) Spouses will learn how their significant other communicates and handles conflict.

5) Did I mention it was cheap?

6) Couples will investigate their family of origin and understand how differently each family system communicates.

7) Husbands and wives will learn how to deal with stress and conflict in a healthy way.

8) You’ll sit down as a couple and set goals for your family and relationship.

9) Couples will learn how to better communicate and grow spiritually with their spouse.

10) Spouses will be able to sit back, relax and enjoy a stress free environment with other couples.

Sign-up ASAP – space is limited to six couples. You do not want to miss this opportunity.

March 30 – Pray, Ask, Bring

     Posted on Mon ,17/03/2014 by Chip

Yesterday during our worship services I finished up the teaching series “RE:” by challenging each of us to RE:focus on bringing truth and people together. The challenge was simple: Pray, Ask and Bring. So if you missed it – here is what we’re doing:

On March 30 we want to reach out to as many people as possible and personally invite them to church. So for the next two weeks – I want to encourage you to:

Pray: Pray for one person to invite to church. Pray that God would provide providential appointments for you to invite them, that their heart will be open to the invitation, and that you might demonstrate the grace of Christ to them. For the first week – simply pray.

Ask: After spending time praying for them – ask them to join you on March 30. Bring them to either the 9:30 or 11 a.m. service.

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Bring: Bring them to church and then bring them to lunch afterward. Spend some time hanging out and nurturing the seed that God will plant during our services on Sunday.

Can’t wait to see all God is going to do through you! Have a great week!

A Year To Remember – A Year To Anticipate

     Posted on Thu ,26/12/2013 by Chip

Christmas is over, decorations are coming down, and 2014 is right around the corner. With the closing of 2013 and the emergence of a new year there are many things to be thankful for and a lot to look forward to at River Hills Church. Over the past year life at River Hills has changed A LOT!!! Here are a few things to celebrate, appreciate and thank God for:

1) We moved into our new facility. After 6 years without a permanent home, God blessed us with an incredible place to worship and do ministry. Since our opening on November 17 we have hosted food distribution, business Christmas parties, worship services, small groups and a plethora of other things.

2) Over 60 people came to Christ – not including the 40 kids in Haiti who received Jesus.

3) We’ve grown numerically -and spiritually.

4) Our children’s ministry is busting at the seams.

5) We’ve sent missionaries all over the world.

6) People have adopted a culture of generosity.

Things are happening – and I am so thankful to be able to pastor our church, but this is only the beginning. Next year holds some unexpected and exciting steps forward in the life of River Hills. The first big step is our official grand opening on January 12. We will launch a 9:30 and 11 a.m. worship service and on January 19 start Sunday night small groups.

This is only the beginning – I can’t wait to share with you what we are planning for 2014 – so don’t miss our worship service on January 5.

Have a very safe and wonderful New Year! God Bless!!!!

10 Reasons To Come To Christmas Eve Services

     Posted on Tue ,17/12/2013 by Chip

Christmas is upon and I’m stoked about our very first Christmas Eve Service at our new facility. If you haven’t made plans for Christmas Eve – plan to join me at 4:30 or 6 p.m. on Tuesday December 24. Here are 10 reasons you should attend:

10) There will be plenty of hot chocolate, coffee and hot tea to give you that extra caffeine to stay up late wrapping presents.

9) You’ll get to experience  a white Christmas – there will be snow!

8) If you’re into Santa – he’ll be joining us for pics and fun!

7) There are two services to choose from – 4:30 and 6 p.m.

6) Some of the best Christmas music you’ll ever hear – our band is preparing to rock!

5) No Christmas Eve is complete without Silent Night and Candles.

4) A Christmas Eve message that kids and adults can understand.

3) A place to bring unchurched family and friends.

2) Bring canned goods to the service in order to provide food for orphans in Haiti.

1) Finally – a time to reflect on and experience the true meaning of Christmas.

Look forward to seeing you there!

Grand Opening – January 12!!!

     Posted on Mon ,25/11/2013 by Chip

After two weeks of meeting in our new facility I am completely amazed. We’ve experienced growth, life change and NO TEAR DOWN!!! While we’ve already officially moved in, our grand opening is planned for January 12. Between now and the 12th we will distribute over 20,000 mailers to the community, slam social media, prepare for the launch of new small groups, and start a 9:30 worship service – but there is something that I need from each of you:

Invite someone! Begin to pray now for someone to invite to our new worship services and facility. This is a great opportunity to connect with those who are investigating God and find a church to call home.

Pray with me. Invite with me. Expect great things with me – for January 12!!

Sweet Endings and Sweeter Beginnings

     Posted on Tue ,12/11/2013 by Chip

Last Sunday was a wonderful collision of reflective thankfulness and an expectant future. By wrapping up our last worship experience at the Winder YMCA, River Hills Church tore down much like we began six years ago – except this time we didn’t throw a few curtains and sound equipment in the back of a pick-up truck – we rolled it into a large moving truck and two trailers and drove to our new location. God has been faithful through His provision and expression of His glory and the sweetness of our worship experience at the YMCA was only outmatched by an expectant anticipation of the new chapter we begin as a church this Sunday.

Much like the black Friday shopper forgets to celebrate Thanksgiving – I don’t want our church to forget about all that God has done while at the Winder YMCA. Not only did He provide a place to worship (for free) for the last six years – we’ve added over 350 new people to our fellowship and witnessed the life change of over 150 people as they have accepted Christ. God has truly moved.

As we lifted up our glow sticks as an Ebeneezer to the God who has brought us this far – we raised another glow stick to remember those who have yet to experience Christ. The sweetness of God’s provision and this new beginning are for His glory. I am so humbled to be a part of this church and the privilege to watch all that God is doing.

This week we open the doors to our new worship center – but this is only the beginning. My prayer is that the Lord would surprise us with how much He is going to work – and give us a fervor to bring truth and people together. I can’t wait to worship the risen Christ on Sunday in our new venue, but I am reminded that no matter where we worship – God still works.

Join me this Sunday as we turn the page to a new chapter in the life of River Hills Church.

What To Expect In Our New Facility

     Posted on Mon ,21/10/2013 by Chip

We are in the homestretch of opening up our new facility at River Hills Church! The last six years have been an incredible journey and finally we are taking a HUGE next step in “Bringing Truth and People Together.” As we grow closer to the opening of our new facility many of you have questions about changes, time-lines and expectations – so I wanted to take a moment and answer some of the most common questions:

When will we begin to meet for worship in the new facility?

Great question! Our objective is to be in on November 10 or 17. This could be prolonged if inspections or work is not complete.

Where Is The New Facility?

I know this sounds like a weird question, but knowing how to get there and the address are two different things. The building is located at the corner of Argonne Road and Highway 53 (Hog Mountain Rd.). We are about one mile from 316 and two miles from downtown Winder. The actual address is 416 Argonne Rd. Winder, GA 30680.

What kind of changes will take place in the kid’s ministry?

Tons! Age groups will have their own space and worship experience during the service on Sunday mornings – which is relatively normal. What will be different is how the ages will be divided up. There is a room dedicated to infants with an attached quiet room for nursing mothers. There is a separate space for 0-2 year olds as well as huge meeting spaces for pre-school, k-3rd, and 4th-5th. This is going to dramatically change the way we can do ministry in our children’s ministry. We also have a massive PLAYGROUND!!!!

What about student ministry?

Students will continue to join adults during the Sunday morning worship services. However, students will have their own separate worship/gathering space on Sunday and Wednesday evenings – and during 3D. They will have a HUGE 75 seat auditorium!

When will we start two services?

Our plan is to move into the new facility as quickly as possible, but we will only have one service (unless there is limited space). On Sunday January 12 we will have our grand opening, start our 2nd service, and re-launch our 3D small groups. This is going to be a BIG Sunday for RHC – so begin pray about who you will invite.

What can I do?

There are two major things individuals in our church and do. First of all please show up for our work day on Saturday November 2 from 10 a.m. – 4 p.m. We will finish up landscaping, paint, lay carpet, clean and get ready to open up the building. Secondly people can give above and beyond what is normally given. This will enable the church pay for thing in cash as we complete the facility. The easiest way to give is online through our website.

I cannot wait to see all that God is going to do in the next few weeks – and I’m so excited that you are a part of the journey.

Should life really be “all about my kids”?

     Posted on Mon ,29/07/2013 by Chip

I love my kids. The first time  I saw them I knew that my love for them would last forever. As parents, Sarah Beth and I are always looking for ways to encourage, discipline, and motivate them to not only be people of integrity – but also passionate followers of Christ. Like most parents, we want our children to not only have the experiences necessary to grow into healthy adults, but the confidence to live a life above reproach. With this in mind though, I’ve come to realize that the worst thing I can do for the spiritual vitality of my children is to revolve my life (and my calendar) around them. Let me explain:

The temptation for many parents today is to involve their kids to the point of excess. We’ve been tempted by that as well, keeping our kids busy in extracurricular activities not only keeps them out of trouble, but builds character, teaches teamwork and creates confidence and perseverance. But there is such a thing as too much. Our lives as parents should not revolve around our children – but around Christ. Now, as a Christian parent, we would say that is absolutely right – however our schedules, actions, and encouragements don’t always line up with that value – thus making our core value our children and not Jesus.

Here are few thoughts to chew on:

1) When we revolve our lives around our kids we’re teaching them that God sees them as the center of the universe. For people to think that God’s agenda and love revolves around something He created is absolutely heretical. Christ died for God’s glory, saved us for His purposes, and created people for His delight. We are beneficiaries of His good graces. Our responsibility as parents is to teach our children a healthy understanding of the centrality of Christ.

2) Many times when we revolve our lives around our children it is a feeble attempt to relive our childhood or live out what we never experienced through our children. The question that I’ve had to ask is this: what if my kid hates what I love – what do I do? I’ve had to learn to encourage what they love, not what I like. Now – they both like to watch TV, but what I’m focused on is art vs. football, academics vs. athletics, etc. This even applies to our spirituality: while I love to dig deep into the  Word, my daughter loves to sing and praise God through her creativity. I’ve had to learn to encourage that, and honestly apply it.

3) Finally, while most of us believe that we have brought a future all-star, NFL quarterback, or LPGA golf star into this world – the reality is that less than 2% of high school athletes go on to get an athletic college scholarship. A bigger reality is that less than 12% of college athletes go “pro.” What does that mean for the hard working soccer mom, band dad or the parent that spends weekends at the ball field? Simple: encourage your kids to practice, play and work hard at their activity – but more effort needs to be given to the academic side of life – and even more encouragement on their spiritual vitality.

Understand – I’m not saying don’t play summer league, throw away your trumpet or quit the team. What I am saying is as parents the best thing that we can do is revolve our lives around Jesus and allow our kids to experience the outpouring of His grace – not only through our words, but through our actions. Parenting is hard – you are not alone.

Haiti Reflections

     Posted on Wed ,20/02/2013 by Chip

All of America celebrated President’s day weekend by spending time with family, friends or visiting some relaxing far off destination. This year I did something out of the ordinary – I spent my weekend a part from family visiting the always fun-filled country of Haiti. This was my first trip to Port-au-Prince, Haiti and it was both incredible and awful at the same time. Let me give you a little background to understand that statement:

A year ago River Hills Church was introduced to Maude Severre. She is a native of Haiti, but has lived in the U.S. for over 20 years. After the earthquake in 2010 she immediately went to Haiti and along with her sister (who lives in Haiti) they started an orphanage. This ministry is almost fully supported by Maude (she works two jobs) to support the 23 children there. Our church met Maude through a fellow pastor and sent a team down last summer. God began to open doors for more partnership with Maude and to plant a church in Haiti. This past weekend I traveled with our children’s minister and one of our small group leaders to scout a potential mission project for this summer, determine if we wanted to become a greater partner in this ministry, and interview pastors to start a River Hills Haiti church. During our four days in Haiti we experienced so many things – but let me clarify what I mean by incredible and awful.

The mission trip was incredible because we extended our partnership with the orphanage, met some wonderful new friends, saw God moving in the lives of the kids, watched as God opened doors to plant many churches and was able to dedicate each one of our orphans to the Lord. It was awful because the need in Haiti is overwhelming. Port-au-Prince is literally the most desperate and degenerate place I have ever been. The suffering is immeasurable and the magnitude of that suffering is immense. The people and their plight broke my heart.

I believe that God is calling River Hills to not only support this orphanage, but also to raise up orphans to change the nation of Haiti. But change cannot be effective unless the Gospel is infused into the culture. That is why I also am more convicted than ever that God is leading us to plant churches. Yes I said churches. I don’t know how this is going to happen – and I don’t know when. But I know where to start and I encourage you to partner with me, attend our summer mission trip and pray for God to do great things in this country.

Raising Kids To Know Jesus Is Tough

     Posted on Thu ,17/01/2013 by Chip

Do you ever feel like a failure as a parent? I know I do. So many times I find myself retracing my attitude, actions and tone voice thinking that I could have done such a better job in my responses. As a parent I am a work in progress, and sometimes I am work that digresses. One of the areas that Sarah Beth and I are constantly evaluating and trying to improve is raising our children to know Jesus. Not just know about Jesus – but to truly know Christ. While we are constantly learning – I thought I would pass on some lessons learned from our successes and mistakes (so far):

1) Each child is different and will learn in different ways. My nine-year old boy relates to Christ entirely differently that my 6 year old girl. One is intellectual, rationale and loves to know the context of Scripture. The other is sensitive, creative and loves to worship. Learning this about our children has helped us in how we communicate Christ to them.

2) Not having all the answers is ok – as long as you are honest. Children deserve honesty – and when we’re honest about our shortcomings, fears, and ignorance, they can relate to that.

3) Pray into and over your children. They need to hear and see you pray. Prayer isn’t just for bedtime and dinner, but for devotion and worship. The best way to teach your kids to pray is to model it for them. We must also be intentional about praying over and into our kids. Pray for them to be safe, to be sexually pure before marriage, for their spouse, for their homework, for everything.

4) Doing devotions is hard. It’s hard to schedule, its hard to be consistent, and it is definitely hard for them to pay attention. Keep working at it and don’t quit. This is a tough discipline for our family, but we keep trying.

5) Children who are centered around the gospel typically have parents that are centered around the gospel. Let your life be a light to them – and let it shine.

6) This last point is tough – but an important one to remember: my job as a parent is the toughest, most important job I’ll ever have (along with being a husband); therefore it is my job to make sure that my kids are raised to know Jesus – and no one else. The children’s ministry, church, small group, or even Veggie Tales are great and important things to implement in your child’s spiritual journey – but it is ultimately our job as parents to show them Jesus.

Praying BIG things for you and your kids. Remember – you will make mistakes, God is in control, and never ever quit. Blessings!